the audience that says yes, this is what is wrong with us. what is wrong with us is us. we need to do better. if we do better, everything will be all right. my angst is whoa, whoa, whoa, wait a minute. does it keep you from asking about the war on drugs and keep you from asking about things other communities feel free to ask for. >> yes. >> the way i look at it, it's more complicated. the reason why the audience was so happy is it's a conversation that's happened within the community all the time. the idea that fathers are not there. i did not have my father around. i understand where that's coming from. but, what happens is, as president, coming from that stance, he has a lot more riding when he says it. so, he's saying something that we have heard in the church, in the communities over and over and over. it's because he's the president. in all honesty, we asked him. talk to everybody. when we does it, everyone is like thank you, yes. if the guy we look toward in certain parts of the community look toward as an example, maybe it will change how things work. i thought he